Listen to this song as you read on~

Warning: Chances are this song will make you fall head over heels over your crush even more. 😚

Today, my friend asked : How do you know someone will be “the one?”

aka soul mate, match-made-in-heaven

🤨🤨🤨🤨

Answer: you won’t really know for sure.

Why?

It’s because it’s up to both of you, who will create that you are “the one” for each other.

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Well, while there’s no clear 100% way to work it out who’s your soulmate or true love or the one or what not, I offer 3 tips I got from my coach.

Disclaimer: this might not work in every situation. Utilize it at your own discretion.

1. List out what you like or you don’t like about that person.
   ❤️Like: 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7.
   💔Dislike: 1. 2. 3. 4.
   ⇒ Can you accept the dislikes – accept that person who he is and who is not?
2. Ask yourself and your crush/partner if you have the commitment with each other to grow and learn together?
   ⇒ If you haven’t create that commitment, ask yourself if you want to create with it with that?
   ⇒ Also, this commitment is more like committing to a journey together.
   ⟹ And if this is with your crush, maybe it will involve you learning about each other.
   🙅‍♀️Getting to know each other : If you operate from the ‘interview mode’ – I’ll ask you questions and check them off according to my list – then this process is a whole waste of time. Bro, this is not a job. It’s a relationship aka a journey together. Personally, I’ll admit this is my blind spot. Even now, I have that urge to sit my crush down and interview their whole life to see our compatibility. 😂
3. Don’t put sex as a priority.
   ⇒Sounds crude 😳 but if it’s there on the forefront, it will be hard to distinguish which is really driving your love and intimacy.

Good luck~